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#1 2007-05-29 20:27:46

redchihuahua007
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Is my Husband Depressed or is it just that he hates me?

Everyone loves my fiancee. EVERYONE, you can't stay mad him at all he's nice charismatic, sweet, flirty, fun... just everything you want a man to be......infront of other people only but not me at least not anymore. As soon as our guests leave or we are alone for a long period of time he's the exact opposite. He's very quiet, introverted, boaring, depressing, angry, pessamistic, cold, and even argumentative. He has this incredible front for all to see and it's actually a little disturbing how dramatic the difference is in personalities. This isn't the romantic wonderful man I dated at all. I feel like I've been gipped, I hate when people leave because I don't want to be alone with him....it's sad horrible and depressing for me he drags me down with him. When I ask him what is wrong he say nothing and he gets angry with me for even asking or if he give me an answer it's "you're reading into things, leave me alone". My sister moved into our house 6 months ago and she has noticed this behavior as well so I know this is not me. What is wrong with him?  I know people usally have a face they wear in public but this is nutts, nobody even knows the real him. Is it me, does he just hate being around me? Is this who he is? Am I stuck with this crazy mulitple personality Phony person....what is wrong here? I don't want to spend my life depressed alone and in the dark with this man.

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#2 2007-06-01 22:50:29

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Re: Is my Husband Depressed or is it just that he hates me?

He's definitely depressed, and I doubt he's really mad at you at all. The way that you described him though... kind of reminded me of myself.

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#3 2007-06-04 18:24:28

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Re: Is my Husband Depressed or is it just that he hates me?

Well thanks for the reply. It's nice to know it's not me. Have you got any suggestions on what he should do or I should do. I hate to see him like this and I don't think I can live with a person like this if this is the real him, nobody should have to. You only live once, but I love him I'm willing to try anything before I would pack up and leave.

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#4 2007-06-11 17:46:00

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Re: Is my Husband Depressed or is it just that he hates me?

I think you should change your way of thinking. I meant just try to understand him in different direction. He is nice, charismatic, sweet, flirty, fun whatever you mentioned . That’s mean he has some good ability, manner as well. Try to use this behavior (positive attitude). Your sister might be already biased by you. It’s so natural. Sometime go out for long tours wherever have public gathering, party. Treat him as a normal positive way with love, patience... Within few days everything will be ok. At least you got a good fiancée who can handle nicely with all others why not you????

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