Very judgemental. Especially when things go wrong and I'm having a hard time I tend to judge myself and others way too much. Why do I do that? but especially what can I do to stop?

Well; judging is about wanting there to be better decisions. When things don't go as planned, I'd suggest you judge or evaluate yourself and others, but go for decisions and words that are realistic... Like some problems can't be solved instantly... Slowly, I'd suggest, try to improve a situation...